Concept:
Mutual inductance between two coils is defined as the magnetic flux linked with one coil due to current flowing in the other coil divided by that current.
Mathematically,
\[
M=\frac{N\Phi}{I}.
\]
For a long solenoid, the magnetic field inside the solenoid is uniform and is given by
\[
B=\mu_0 n I,
\]
where
\[
n=\frac{N_1}{L}
\]
is the number of turns per unit length.
Hence,
\[
B=\mu_0\frac{N_1}{L}I_1.
\]
Since the field outside a long solenoid is negligible, only the area of the solenoid contributes to the flux linkage.
Step 1: Calculate the magnetic field produced by the solenoid.
Let a current \(I_1\) flow through the long solenoid.
For a long solenoid,
\[
B=\mu_0\frac{N_1}{L}I_1.
\]
This magnetic field exists only inside the solenoid.
Step 2: Calculate the magnetic flux linked with one turn of the surrounding coil.
The surrounding coil has radius \(r_2\), but the magnetic field exists only inside the solenoid of radius \(r_1\).
Therefore, effective area through which flux passes is
\[
A=\pi r_1^2.
\]
Hence flux through one turn of the outer coil is
\[
\Phi
=
BA.
\]
Substituting the value of \(B\),
\[
\Phi
=
\left(
\mu_0\frac{N_1}{L}I_1
\right)
\pi r_1^2.
\]
Therefore,
\[
\Phi
=
\mu_0\frac{N_1}{L}I_1\pi r_1^2.
\]
Step 3: Calculate total flux linkage with the outer coil.
The outer coil contains \(N_2\) turns.
Therefore total flux linkage is
\[
N_2\Phi
=
N_2
\left(
\mu_0\frac{N_1}{L}I_1\pi r_1^2
\right).
\]
Hence,
\[
N_2\Phi
=
\mu_0\frac{N_1N_2}{L}\pi r_1^2 I_1.
\]
Step 4: Use the definition of mutual inductance.
By definition,
\[
M
=
\frac{N_2\Phi}{I_1}.
\]
Substituting the above expression,
\[
M
=
\frac{
\mu_0\frac{N_1N_2}{L}\pi r_1^2 I_1
}
{I_1}.
\]
Therefore,
\[
\boxed{
M
=
\mu_0
\frac{N_1N_2\pi r_1^2}{L}
}.
\]
This is the required expression for mutual inductance.
Step 5: Discuss whether \(M_{12}=M_{21}\).
According to the reciprocity theorem of mutual induction,
\[
M_{12}=M_{21}.
\]
This result is independent of the sizes and shapes of the two circuits.
Therefore, even in the present case,
\[
\boxed{M_{12}=M_{21}}.
\]
Final Answer:
\[
\boxed{
M
=
\mu_0
\frac{N_1N_2\pi r_1^2}{L}
}
\]
and
\[
\boxed{
M_{12}=M_{21}.
}
\]