Step 1: Observe the quadratic part.
The given equation is
\[
4x^2+20xy+25y^2+2x+5y-12=0
\]
The quadratic part is
\[
4x^2+20xy+25y^2
\]
This can be written as
\[
(2x+5y)^2
\]
because
\[
(2x+5y)^2=4x^2+20xy+25y^2
\]
Step 2: Rewrite the full equation.
So the given equation becomes
\[
(2x+5y)^2+(2x+5y)-12=0
\]
Step 3: Substitute a new variable.
Let
\[
u=2x+5y
\]
Then the equation becomes
\[
u^2+u-12=0
\]
Step 4: Factorize the quadratic equation.
\[
u^2+u-12=0
\]
\[
(u+4)(u-3)=0
\]
Hence,
\[
u=-4
\]
or
\[
u=3
\]
Step 5: Convert back to equations of lines.
Since
\[
u=2x+5y,
\]
the two lines are
\[
2x+5y=-4
\]
and
\[
2x+5y=3
\]
That is,
\[
2x+5y+4=0
\]
and
\[
2x+5y-3=0
\]
Step 6: Find the distance between the parallel lines.
The distance between two parallel lines
\[
ax+by+c_1=0
\]
and
\[
ax+by+c_2=0
\]
is
\[
\frac{|c_1-c_2|}{\sqrt{a^2+b^2}}
\]
Here,
\[
a=2,\quad b=5,\quad c_1=4,\quad c_2=-3
\]
Therefore,
\[
\text{Distance}
=
\frac{|4-(-3)|}{\sqrt{2^2+5^2}}
\]
\[
=
\frac{7}{\sqrt{4+25}}
\]
\[
=
\frac{7}{\sqrt{29}}
\]
Step 7: Final conclusion.
Hence, the distance between the lines is
\[
\boxed{\frac{7}{\sqrt{29}}}
\]