Concept:
For the parabola
\[
y^2=4ax,
\]
the equation of the tangent having slope \(m\) is
\[
y=mx+\frac{a}{m}.
\]
This standard tangent form is extremely useful because it directly relates the slope of the tangent to the parabola.
In this problem, the tangent is already given in slope form. Therefore, by comparing it with the standard tangent equation, we can determine the slope and then locate the point of contact.
Step 1: Compare with the standard tangent form.
Given tangent:
\[
y=mx+\frac{3}{m}.
\]
Standard tangent:
\[
y=mx+\frac{a}{m}.
\]
Comparing,
\[
a=3.
\]
Step 2: Find the point of contact corresponding to slope \(m\).
For
\[
y^2=4ax,
\]
the point corresponding to parameter \(t\) is
\[
(at^2,2at).
\]
Also,
\[
m=\frac1t.
\]
Therefore the point of contact is
\[
\left(\frac{a}{m^2},\frac{2a}{m}\right).
\]
Step 3: Use the given \(x\)-coordinate.
Given point:
\[
P(3,\beta).
\]
Thus,
\[
\frac{a}{m^2}=3.
\]
Since \(a=3\),
\[
\frac{3}{m^2}=3.
\]
\[
m^2=1.
\]
\[
m=\pm1.
\]
Step 4: Use the condition \(\beta<0\).
Since
\[
\beta=\frac{2a}{m},
\]
and \(\beta<0\),
we take
\[
m=-1.
\]
Thus,
\[
\beta=\frac{2(3)}{-1}
=-6.
\]
Step 5: Evaluate \(3m-\beta\).
\[
3m-\beta
=
3(-1)-(-6).
\]
\[
=-3+6.
\]
\[
=3.
\]
Since
\[
a=3,
\]
we obtain
\[
3m-\beta=a.
\]
Step 6: Final Conclusion.
\[
\boxed{3m-\beta=a}
\]
Hence the correct answer is
\[
\boxed{\text{Option (C)}}.
\]