Concept:
The general equation of a second degree is $ax^2 + 2hxy + by^2 + 2gx + 2fy + c = 0$. For it to represent a pair of parallel straight lines, the second-degree homogeneous part must be a perfect square, meaning $h^2 = ab$.
The distance between parallel lines $ax+by+c_1=0$ and $ax+by+c_2=0$ is $d = \frac{|c_1 - c_2|}{\sqrt{a^2+b^2$.
Step 1: Determine the coefficients p and q.
For the equation $x^{2}+4xy+py^{2}+3x+qy-4=0$ to represent parallel lines, the quadratic part $(x^2 + 4xy + py^2)$ must be a perfect square.
Comparing with $ax^2 + 2hxy + by^2$, we have $a=1, 2h=4 \implies h=2$, and $b=p$.
The condition $h^2 = ab$ gives:
$$2^2 = 1 \cdot p \implies p = 4$$
So the quadratic part is $x^2 + 4xy + 4y^2 = (x+2y)^2$.
Thus, the parallel lines are of the form $x + 2y + c_1 = 0$ and $x + 2y + c_2 = 0$.
Multiplying these gives:
$$(x+2y+c_1)(x+2y+c_2) = (x+2y)^2 + (c_1+c_2)(x+2y) + c_1c_2 = 0$$
Comparing this with the given equation $x^2+4xy+4y^2+3x+qy-4=0$:
We can see the linear term $3x$ requires $c_1+c_2 = 3$. If the $x$ coefficient is 3, the $y$ coefficient $q$ must be $2(3) = 6$ to maintain the ratio $(x+2y)$. So $q=6$.
The constant term is $c_1c_2 = -4$.
Step 2: Find the values of $c_1$ and $c_2$.
We have a system of equations:
$$c_1 + c_2 = 3$$
$$c_1c_2 = -4$$
By inspection (or solving the quadratic $t^2 - 3t - 4 = 0$), the roots are $4$ and $-1$.
So, $c_1 = 4$ and $c_2 = -1$.
The two parallel lines are $x + 2y + 4 = 0$ and $x + 2y - 1 = 0$.
Step 3: Calculate the distance between the lines.
The perpendicular distance $\lambda$ between lines $Ax + By + C_1 = 0$ and $Ax + By + C_2 = 0$ is:
$$\lambda = \frac{|C_1 - C_2|}{\sqrt{A^2 + B^2$$
Substitute $A=1, B=2, C_1=4, C_2=-1$:
$$\lambda = \frac{|4 - (-1)|}{\sqrt{1^2 + 2^2 = \frac{5}{\sqrt{5 = \sqrt{5}$$
The question asks for $\lambda^2$:
$$\lambda^2 = (\sqrt{5})^2 = 5$$