Step 1: Use the first relation.
Given
\[
l-m+n=0.
\]
Therefore,
\[
m=l+n.
\]
Step 2: Substitute into the second relation.
Given
\[
lm+mn-4nl=0.
\]
Substituting \(m=l+n\),
\[
l(l+n)+(l+n)n-4ln=0.
\]
Expanding,
\[
l^2+ln+ln+n^2-4ln=0.
\]
\[
l^2-2ln+n^2=0.
\]
\[
(l-n)^2=0.
\]
Hence,
\[
l=n.
\]
Step 3: Find \(m\).
Since
\[
m=l+n,
\]
and \(l=n\),
\[
m=2l.
\]
Thus,
\[
l:m:n=1:2:1.
\]
Step 4: Use the direction cosine condition.
Direction cosines satisfy
\[
l^2+m^2+n^2=1.
\]
Substituting
\[
m=2l,\qquad n=l,
\]
we get
\[
l^2+(2l)^2+l^2=1.
\]
\[
6l^2=1.
\]
\[
l=\pm\frac1{\sqrt6}.
\]
Hence,
\[
m=\pm\frac2{\sqrt6},
\qquad
n=\pm\frac1{\sqrt6}.
\]
Taking the positive set corresponding to the given options,
\[
\left(
\frac1{\sqrt6},
\frac2{\sqrt6},
\frac1{\sqrt6}
\right).
\]
Step 5: Final conclusion.
Therefore, the direction cosines are
\[
\boxed{
\left(
\frac1{\sqrt6},
\frac2{\sqrt6},
\frac1{\sqrt6}
\right)
}
\]