Step 1: Check symmetry.
A relation is symmetric if:
\[
(a,b)\in R \Rightarrow (b,a)\in R
\]
Check pairs:
\[
(1,2)\in R \Rightarrow (2,1)\in R \; \checkmark
\]
\[
(2,1)\in R \Rightarrow (1,2)\in R \; \checkmark
\]
Diagonal elements:
\[
(1,1),(2,2),(3,3) \text{ are symmetric by nature}
\]
Thus, relation is symmetric.
Step 2: Check transitivity.
If $(a,b)$ and $(b,c)$ are in $R$, then $(a,c)$ must be in $R$.
Check:
\[
(1,2),(2,1) \Rightarrow (1,1)\in R \; \checkmark
\]
\[
(2,1),(1,2) \Rightarrow (2,2)\in R \; \checkmark
\]
\[
(1,1),(1,2) \Rightarrow (1,2)\in R \; \checkmark
\]
\[
(2,2),(2,1) \Rightarrow (2,1)\in R \; \checkmark
\]
All conditions satisfied.
Final Answer:
\[
\boxed{\text{both symmetric and transitive}}
\]