Step 1: Factorize the condition on the parameters a, b, and c.
The given condition is $4a^2+9b^2-c^2-12ab=0$.
Rearranging the terms, we can identify a perfect square:
\[
(4a^2 - 12ab + 9b^2) - c^2 = 0.
\]
\[
(2a - 3b)^2 - c^2 = 0.
\]
This is a difference of squares, which factors as:
\[
((2a-3b) - c)((2a-3b) + c) = 0.
\]
Step 2: Identify the two linear relationships between a, b, and c.
This factorization implies that for any line in the family, its parameters must satisfy one of two conditions:
Case 1: $2a - 3b - c = 0$.
Case 2: $2a - 3b + c = 0$.
Step 3: Find the fixed point associated with Case 1.
The family of lines is defined by $ax+by+c=0$. From Case 1, we can substitute $c = 2a-3b$.
\[
ax + by + (2a-3b) = 0.
\]
Group the terms with parameters $a$ and $b$:
\[
a(x+2) + b(y-3) = 0.
\]
For this to be true for all possible values of $a$ and $b$, the coefficients must be zero. This means the line must pass through a fixed point.
$x+2=0 \implies x=-2$.
$y-3=0 \implies y=3$.
So, one fixed point is $P_1(-2, 3)$.
Step 4: Find the fixed point associated with Case 2.
From Case 2, we substitute $c = -2a+3b$.
\[
ax + by + (-2a+3b) = 0.
\]
Group the terms with parameters $a$ and $b$:
\[
a(x-2) + b(y+3) = 0.
\]
For this to be true for all $a$ and $b$, the coefficients must be zero.
$x-2=0 \implies x=2$.
$y+3=0 \implies y=-3$.
So, the second fixed point is $P_2(2, -3)$.
Step 5: Identify the common line.
The family of lines consists of all lines that pass through either $P_1(-2,3)$ or $P_2(2,-3)$. The question asks for the "line common to both families," which refers to the line that passes through both of these fixed points.
This is the line passing through $(2,-3)$ and $(-2,3)$, which matches option (D).