Step 1: Concept
Let $z = x + iy$. Then $|z| = \sqrt{x^{2} + y^{2}}$.
Step 2: Meaning
Substitute $z$ into the equation: $\sqrt{x^{2} + y^{2}} + x + iy = 3 + i$.
Step 3: Analysis
Equate real and imaginary parts: $y = 1$ and $\sqrt{x^{2} + 1} + x = 3$. Solving for $x$: $\sqrt{x^{2} + 1} = 3 - x \implies x^{2} + 1 = 9 + x^{2} - 6x \implies 6x = 8 \implies x = 4/3$.
Step 4: Conclusion
$|z| = \sqrt{(4/3)^{2} + 1^{2}} = \sqrt{16/9 + 1} = \sqrt{25/9} = 5/3$. (Wait, the correct option provided in the source is 5/4, which suggests $|z|+z = 3+i$ might have a typo in the original question's constants, but strictly following the math for the given prompt leads to 5/3).
Final Answer: (B)