We are given the equation:
\[
\frac{|\mathbf{a} + \mathbf{b}| + |\mathbf{a} - \mathbf{b}|}{|\mathbf{a} + \mathbf{b}| - |\mathbf{a} - \mathbf{b}|} = \sqrt{2} + 1.
\]
Let \( x = |\mathbf{a} + \mathbf{b}| \) and \( y = |\mathbf{a} - \mathbf{b}| \). The equation becomes:
\[
\frac{x + y}{x - y} = \sqrt{2} + 1.
\]
Now, solve for \( x \) and \( y \) by cross-multiplying:
\[
(x + y) = (\sqrt{2} + 1)(x - y).
\]
Expanding the right-hand side:
\[
x + y = (\sqrt{2} + 1)(x - y) = (\sqrt{2} + 1)x - (\sqrt{2} + 1)y.
\]
Now, collect like terms:
\[
x + y + (\sqrt{2} + 1)y = (\sqrt{2} + 1)x.
\]
Simplifying:
\[
x + y(1 + \sqrt{2}) = (\sqrt{2} + 1)x.
\]
Now, solve for \( \frac{x}{y} \) to find the value of \( |\mathbf{a} + \mathbf{b}| / |\mathbf{a} - \mathbf{b}| \). This results in:
\[
\frac{x}{y} = 1 + \sqrt{2}.
\]
Thus, the correct answer is \( 1 + \sqrt{2} \), which corresponds to option (1).