Step 1: Understanding the Concept:
A diagonal matrix has zero entries off the main diagonal. A scalar matrix is a diagonal matrix with equal diagonal entries. A unit matrix has all diagonal entries equal to 1. A symmetric matrix satisfies \(a_{ij}=a_{ji}\).
Step 2: Build the matrix.
Off the diagonal, \(a_{ij}=0\). On the diagonal, \(a_{11}=1+1=2\), \(a_{22}=2+2=4\), \(a_{33}=3+3=6\).
\[ A = \begin{bmatrix} 2 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 4 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 6 \end{bmatrix} \]
Step 3: Check statement A.
The diagonal entries 2, 4, 6 are not all equal. So \(A\) is not a scalar matrix. A is FALSE.
Step 4: Check statement B.
All entries off the main diagonal are zero. So \(A\) is a diagonal matrix. B is TRUE.
Step 5: Check statement C.
A unit matrix needs 1 on every diagonal place. Here the diagonal is 2, 4, 6. C is FALSE.
Step 6: Check statement D.
Every off diagonal entry is 0, so \(a_{ij}=a_{ji}\) for all \(i,j\). That means \(A^T=A\). D is TRUE.
Step 7: Match with the options.
The true statements are B and D. That is option 3.
Final Answer:
Only statements B and D are correct.
\[ \boxed{\text{Option 3: B and D only}} \]