Let the length of the shadow after 4 seconds be \(x\). Using similar triangles, the ratio of the height of the girl to the height of the lamp post is equal to the ratio of the length of the shadow to the sum of the girl's distance from the lamp post and the length of her shadow. Thus:
\[
\frac{90}{360} = \frac{x}{120 + x}
\]
Cross-multiplying:
\[
90 \times (120 + x) = 360 \times x
\]
Expanding and solving:
\[
10800 + 90x = 360x
\]
\[
10800 = 270x \quad \Rightarrow \quad x = \frac{10800}{270} = 40
\]
Thus, the total length of the shadow after 4 seconds is \(120 + 40 = 160\) cm.
Thus, the correct answer is option (3).