Step 1: Recall the definition of flexibility coefficients.
Flexibility coefficients represent the displacement at one coordinate due to a unit force applied at another coordinate.
Step 2: Meaning of the $j^{\text{th}}$ column.
The $j^{\text{th}}$ column of the flexibility matrix consists of displacements at all coordinates caused by a unit force applied at coordinate $j$.
Step 3: Analyze the options.
(A) Correct, this exactly matches the definition of flexibility coefficients.
(B) Incorrect, this describes stiffness matrix generation.
(C) Incorrect, flexibility matrix relates forces to displacements, not forces to forces.
(D) Incorrect, again related to stiffness, not flexibility.
Step 4: Conclusion.
Hence, option (A) is correct.