Any tangent to $y^{2}= ax$ is
$ y= mx+\frac{1}{m} \quad...\left(1\right)$
$ \left[ {\text{Tangent to}} y^{2} = 4x is y = mx +\frac{a}{m}\right] $
$\left(1\right) meets x^{2}= -32y $
where $x^{2}= -32\left(mx+\frac{1}{m} \right)$
$ \Rightarrow x^{2}+32mx +\frac{32}{m} = 0 \quad...\left(2\right)$
Since $\left(1\right)$ touches $x^{2} = -32y$
$\therefore$ roots of $\left(2\right)$ are equal
$\therefore \left(32m\right)^{2} = 4\cdot1\cdot\frac{32}{m}$
$ \Rightarrow 8m^{2}= \frac{1}{m}$
$\Rightarrow 8m^{3} $
$ \Rightarrow m^{3} = \frac{1}{8 }$
$\Rightarrow m= \frac{1}{2}$