Step 1: Use the fact that the total probability is \(1\).
We have
\[
3k^2+2k^2+(k^2+k)=1.
\]
Therefore,
\[
6k^2+k-1=0.
\]
Factoring,
\[
(3k-1)(2k+1)=0.
\]
Since probabilities must be non-negative,
\[
\boxed{k=\frac13.}
\]
Step 2: Find the probabilities.
Substituting \(k=\dfrac13\),
\[
P(X=0)
=
3\left(\frac13\right)^2
=
\frac13,
\]
\[
P(X=1)
=
2\left(\frac13\right)^2
=
\frac29,
\]
\[
P(X=2)
=
\left(\frac13\right)^2+\frac13
=
\frac19+\frac39
=
\frac49.
\]
Step 3: Calculate the mean.
The mean of a random variable is
\[
E(X)
=
\sum x_iP(X=x_i).
\]
Hence,
\[
E(X)
=
0\left(\frac13\right)
+
1\left(\frac29\right)
+
2\left(\frac49\right)
=
\frac29+\frac89
=
\frac{10}{9}.
\]
Therefore,
\[
\boxed{E(X)=\frac{10}{9}}.
\]
Hence, the correct option is \(\boxed{(C)}\).