Step 1: Find the marginal density of \(X\).
\[
f_X(x)=\int_{0}^{\infty}xe^{-x(y+1)}\,dy
\]
\[
=x e^{-x}\int_{0}^{\infty}e^{-xy}\,dy
\]
\[
=x e^{-x}\cdot \frac{1}{x}
\]
\[
=e^{-x},\qquad x>0
\]
Thus,
\[
X\sim Exp(1)
\]
Hence, option (A) is true.
Step 2: Find the conditional distribution of \(Y|X=x\).
\[
f_{Y|X}(y|x)=\frac{f(x,y)}{f_X(x)}
\]
\[
=\frac{xe^{-x(y+1)}}{e^{-x}}
\]
\[
=xe^{-xy},\qquad y>0
\]
So,
\[
Y|X=x\sim Exp(x)
\]
Therefore,
\[
E(Y|X=x)=\frac{1}{x}
\]
At \(x=4\),
\[
E(Y|X=4)=\frac14=0.25
\]
Hence, option (B) is true.
Step 3: Find \(E(XY)\).
Using conditional expectation,
\[
E(XY)=E\{X E(Y|X)\}
\]
Since
\[
E(Y|X)=\frac{1}{X},
\]
we get
\[
E(XY)=E\left(X\cdot \frac{1}{X}\right)
\]
\[
=E(1)=1
\]
So,
\[
E(XY)\neq 1.5
\]
Hence, option (C) is false.
Step 4: Check whether \(E(Y)\) is finite.
\[
E(Y)=E\{E(Y|X)\}
\]
\[
=E\left(\frac{1}{X}\right)
\]
Since \(X\sim Exp(1)\),
\[
E\left(\frac{1}{X}\right)=\int_{0}^{\infty}\frac{1}{x}e^{-x}\,dx
\]
The integral diverges near \(x=0\).
Therefore,
\[
E(Y)=\infty
\]
Hence, option (D) is true.
Step 5: Final conclusion.
The true statements are
\[
\boxed{(A),\,(B)\text{ and }(D)}
\]