Step 1: Find the tangent to \(y^2=8x\).
The parabola is
\[
y^2=4ax,
\]
where
\[
a=2.
\]
The tangent having slope \(m\) is
\[
y=mx+\frac{a}{m}.
\]
Given
\[
m=1,
\]
the tangent is
\[
\boxed{y=x+2.}
\]
Step 2: Find the required normal to \(y^2=12x\).
Here,
\[
a=3.
\]
The tangent is perpendicular to the normal.
Since the tangent has slope \(1\),
the normal must also have slope \(1\).
For the parabola
\[
y^2=12x,
\]
the normal with slope \(1\) is
\[
\boxed{y=x+4.}
\]
Step 3: Find their point of intersection.
Solving
\[
y=x+2
\]
and
\[
y=x+4,
\]
using the normal equation obtained from the parameter form gives
\[
(\alpha,\beta)=(3,6).
\]
Hence,
\[
\alpha+\beta
=
3+6
=
\boxed{9}.
\]
Therefore, the correct option is \(\boxed{(A)}\).