Step 1: Write the given function.
Given,
\[
f(x)=ax^2+bx+c
\]
Therefore,
\[
f(x+y)=a(x+y)^2+b(x+y)+c
\]
\[
=ax^2+ay^2+2axy+bx+by+c
\]
Step 2: Write \(f(x)+f(y)+xy\).
Now,
\[
f(x)+f(y)+xy
\]
\[
=(ax^2+bx+c)+(ay^2+by+c)+xy
\]
\[
=ax^2+ay^2+bx+by+2c+xy
\]
Step 3: Compare both sides.
Since
\[
f(x+y)=f(x)+f(y)+xy
\]
we compare the coefficients:
Coefficient of \(xy\):
\[
2a=1
\]
\[
a=\frac12
\]
Constant term:
\[
c=2c
\]
\[
c=0
\]
Step 4: Use the condition \(a+b+c=3\).
Given,
\[
a+b+c=3
\]
Substituting \(a=\frac12\) and \(c=0\),
\[
\frac12+b=3
\]
\[
b=\frac52
\]
Thus,
\[
f(x)=\frac12x^2+\frac52x
\]
Step 5: Find \(\sum_{n=1}^{10}f(n)\).
\[
f(n)=\frac12n^2+\frac52n
\]
So,
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{10}f(n)=\frac12\sum_{n=1}^{10}n^2+\frac52\sum_{n=1}^{10}n
\]
Now,
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{10}n^2=385
\]
and
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{10}n=55
\]
Therefore,
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{10}f(n)=\frac12(385)+\frac52(55)
\]
\[
=\frac{385}{2}+\frac{275}{2}
\]
\[
=\frac{660}{2}
\]
\[
=330
\]
Step 6: Final conclusion.
Hence,
\[
\boxed{330}
\]