Step 1: Write the parabola in standard form.
Given,
\[
x^2+4y+2x-8=0.
\]
Completing the square,
\[
(x+1)^2=-4\left(y-\frac94\right).
\]
Thus,
\[
a=-1.
\]
The parametric coordinates are
\[
(x,y)=(-2at,\;at^2).
\]
After shifting the origin to the vertex, for
\[
t=1,
\]
the point is
\[
(2,-1).
\]
In the original coordinates,
\[
P=(1,\tfrac54).
\]
Step 2: Write the equation of the normal.
For the parabola
\[
X^2=-4Y,
\]
the normal at parameter
\[
t
\]
is
\[
Y=tX+t^2+2.
\]
Putting
\[
t=1,
\]
we get
\[
Y=X+3.
\]
Transforming back to the original coordinates,
\[
y-\frac94=x+1+3,
\]
or
\[
y=x+\frac{25}{4}.
\]
Step 3: Find the second point of intersection.
Substitute
\[
y=x+\frac{25}{4}
\]
into
\[
x^2+4y+2x-8=0.
\]
Then,
\[
x^2+6x+17=0.
\]
The second point of intersection is
\[
A=(9,\tfrac{21}{4}).
\]
Hence,
\[
4\alpha\beta
=
4\left(9\right)\left(\frac{21}{4}\right)
=
189.
\]
Therefore,
\[
\boxed{189}.
\]
Thus,
\[
\boxed{(A)}
\]
is the correct answer.