Step 1: Name the ages and note what is given.
Let the father's age be \(F\), the mother's age be \(M\), the first son's age be \(S_1\), the second son's age be \(S_2\), and the daughter's age be \(D\).
We are told \(D = 5\) years.
Step 2: Use the ratio between the first son and his sister.
The first son's age is in the ratio 3:1 with his sister's age, so
\[ S_1 : D = 3 : 1 \implies S_1 = 3D = 3\times 5 = 15 \]
Step 3: Find the second son's age.
The second son's age is \(\frac{2}{3}\) of the first son's age:
\[ S_2 = \frac{2}{3}S_1 = \frac{2}{3}\times 15 = 10 \]
Step 4: Find the father's age.
The father's age is four times the second son's age:
\[ F = 4\times S_2 = 4\times 10 = 40 \]
Step 5: Find the mother's age.
The mother is 3.5 times as old as the second son:
\[ M = 3.5\times S_2 = 3.5\times 10 = 35 \]
Step 6: Add up all five ages.
\[ F+M+S_1+S_2+D = 40+35+15+10+5 = 105 \]
Step 7: Check the other options.
Options (1), (3) and (4), that is 115, 205 and 210, do not match when we add the five ages we derived directly from the given ratios.
Only summing the five correctly derived ages gives 105 years.
Final Answer:
The sum of the ages of all five family members is 105 years.
\[ \boxed{105 \text{ years}} \]